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Managing Newborn Frequent Feedings: Strategies for New Parents

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Why does it seem like your newborn is always hungry? Discover the reasons behind constant feeding during the early postpartum period and uncover practical strategies to manage this intense time without feeling completely overwhelmed. In this episode of Parenting Powerhouse by Parenting Genie, host Carey breaks down the science of your baby's tiny stomach and why frequent feeds are crucial for their growth and hydration. You'll gain a deeper understanding of your baby's needs and learn how to set realistic expectations that can ease the pressure on you as a new parent.

We also dive into essential tactics for creating a comfortable feeding environment, maintaining your own well-being, and maximizing partner support. Carey shares actionable tips to make those endless feeds more manageable, from preparing a cozy feeding nook to staying nourished and hydrated. Plus, we tackle the challenges of night feeds and offer advice on developing a nighttime routine that works for you and your baby. Tune in for a candid conversation filled with support and practical advice aimed at helping you not just survive, but thrive, during those demanding early weeks of parenthood.

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Carey Donohoe:

Hi everyone. Today's podcast is titled Surviving the Frequent Feeds During the Early Postpartum Period. Hello and welcome back to Parenting Powerhouse by Parenting Genie. I'm your host, Carey, and today we're tackling a topic that many new parents face head-on during those first few weeks with a newborn Surviving the Frequent Feeds During the Early Postpartum Period.

Carey Donohoe:

If you're in those early days of parenthood, you probably feel like your life revolves around feeding. Whether breastfeeding, formula feeding or combining both, feeding your newborn is a round-the-clock job. In this episode, we will explain why your baby needs to feed so frequently and share some tips on managing it without feeling completely overwhelmed. Let's start with why, in those early weeks, your newborn stomach is tiny the size of a marble at birth. This means they can't hold much food at once and must eat frequently to get the nutrients they need to grow. Whether you're breastfeeding or bottle feeding, babies typically need to eat every two to three hours. This frequent feeding helps your baby gain weight, stay hydrated and develop a healthy feeding routine. But as natural as this process is, it's exhausting for parents. Sleep deprivation often kicks in quickly and it can feel like you've just finished one feed and then the next one comes around. It's common to feel overwhelmed by the frequency of feeds, especially when trying to recover from childbirth. So how can you manage the frequent feeds in a way that helps you survive, even thrive, during this early postpartum period? Let's dive into some strategies.

Carey Donohoe:

Postpartum period let's dive into some strategies. First and foremost, it's important to set realistic expectations. In those early weeks, feeding your baby will take up most of your time. Accepting this as a temporary but necessary phase can help ease the pressure you might feel. Your body and baby are adjusting to a new routine and it's okay if the laundry piles up or the meals aren't as elaborate as they used to be. Preparing your feeding area beforehand is one of the best coping strategies for frequent feeds, whether breastfeeding or bottle feeding. Create a comfortable and convenient space for feeding. Stock it up with your essentials water, snacks, burp cloths, your phone or a book, and pillows for support. If breastfeeding, a nursing pillow can help position your baby comfortably, reducing strain on your arms and back.

Carey Donohoe:

Another critical strategy is to take care of yourself while feeding your baby. It's easy to neglect your needs when focused on keeping up with your baby's demands, but staying hydrated and nourished is just as important. Ensure you have water and healthy snacks within reach during feeding. A quick snack like trail mix, fruit or granola can help give you the energy boost you need. Now let's talk about your partner support. Feeding might primarily fall on one parent, especially if you're breastfeeding, but that doesn't mean your partner can't help. Your partner can offer support by bringing you snacks, helping with the nappy changes or keeping you company during those late night feeds. If you're bottle feeding or pumping, consider taking shifts so that both of you can get some rest.

Carey Donohoe:

Another tip is to embrace rest when you can. The old saying sleep when the baby sleeps may sound cliche, but it's often the best advice for new parents. Even if you can't sleep every time your baby naps, try to use those moments to relax and recharge. Rest is essential for your recovery and wellbeing, especially during those early weeks when sleep can be elusive. If you're breastfeeding and struggling with the demands of frequent feeds, consider reaching out for support. Lactation consultants can offer guidance on how to make breastfeeding more comfortable and efficient, and they can help troubleshoot any issues you may be experiencing. And they can help troubleshoot any issues you may be experiencing. It's also worth mentioning that some parents find breastfeeding challenging in the beginning, and that's completely normal. Don't hesitate to seek help if you need it.

Carey Donohoe:

Now let's talk about the night feeds. These can be some of the most challenging moments for new parents, mainly when operating on little sleep. Try to make night feeds as easy as possible by keeping things simple. Have everything you need close by bottles, formula burp cloths or breastfeeding pillows, so you don't have to stumble around in the dark looking for supplies. Keep the lights low to help you and your baby transition back to sleep more quickly after feeding. It's also helpful to develop a night time routine. Babies thrive on routines and having a consistent bedtime ritual can signal your baby that it's time to sleep. Whether it's a warm bath, soft music or a gentle rocking session, find what works for you and stick with it. Over time, this routine will help your baby settle more efficiently, which can mean longer stretches of sleep for everyone.

Carey Donohoe:

Remember, these frequent feeds won't last forever. As your baby grows, their stomach will get bigger and the time between feeds will gradually lengthen. In the meantime, being patient with yourself and your baby is essential. You're learning and adjusting to this new rhythm, which takes time. Surviving the frequent feeds early postpartum is about finding balance and asking for help when needed. Don't hesitate to lean on your partner, family or friends for support and, most importantly, give yourself grace. You're doing a fantastic job, even when it feels tough.

Carey Donohoe:

That's the wrap-up for today's episode on how to survive the frequent feeds early postpartum. I hope these tips help you feel more equipped to handle the feeding frenzy during these early weeks. In our next episode, we'll discuss understanding newborn weight, another common challenge for new parents. And, as always, if you're feeling overwhelmed or need a little extra support, Parenting Genie is here for you. We offer Parenting Live Expert 24-7 support, where you can connect instantly with a maternal child health nurse for real-time advice and support, whether it's feeding questions, sleep concerns or general parenting advice. We're just a click away. For more tips and insights, visit our website at parentinggeniecomau, and don't forget about Genie Chat, which offers instant parenting answers from pregnancy to raising a five-year-old. Until next time, take care of yourself and happy parenting.